Never underestimate the power of rejection.
Rejection will initially hit you like a ton of bricks.
Crush your self-esteem and ego.
But only for a moment if you allow it, you can find that rejection can free you from what the universe may have been telling you all along was not the appropriate path for you. Sometimes, our hearts and minds lead us in directions haphazardly. It’s when we hit a stone wall that we become self-aware and can stand in our truth. To be honest with ourselves, we will have heartache over what we envisioned but reality will keep us grounded. Only allowing us to relish such unrealistic thoughts until we have overstepped the excitement of thinking to the actual doing. Sometimes, these fantastic thoughts can propel us in directions we never imagined. So, they definitely have their place in our lives, just not a permanent one. Once we stand back and view it for what it truly is…an educational mind-expanding experience….will we be able to approach the next challenge that eagerly awaits our arrival.
Intention is the starting point of every dream. It is the creative power that fulfills all of our needs, whether for money, relationships, spiritual awakening, or love.
Everything that happens in the universe begins with intention. When I decide to buy a birthday present, wiggle my toes, or call a friend, it all starts with intention.
The sages of India observed thousands of years ago that our destiny is ultimately shaped by our deepest intentions and desires. The classic Vedic text known as the Upanishads declares, “You are what your deepest desire is. As your desire is, so is your intention. As your intention is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.”
An intention is a directed impulse of consciousness that contains the seed form of that which you aim to create. Like real seeds, intentions can’t grow if you hold on to them. Only when you release your intentions into the fertile depths of your consciousness can they grow and flourish. In my book The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, the Law of Intention and Desire lays out the five steps for harnessing the power of intention to create anything you desire.
1. Slip into the Gap
Most of the time our mind is caught up in thoughts, emotions, and memories. Beyond this noisy internal dialogue is a state of pure awareness that is sometimes referred to as “the gap.” One of the most effective tools we have for entering the gap is meditation. Meditation takes you beyond the ego-mind into the silence and stillness of pure consciousness. This is the ideal state in which to plant your seeds of intention
2. Release Your Intentions and Desires
Once you’re established in a state of restful awareness, release your intentions and desires. The best time to plant your intentions is during the period after meditation, while your awareness remains centered in the quiet field of all possibilities. After you set an intention, let it go – simply stop thinking about it. Continue this process for a few minutes after your meditation period each day.
3. Remain Centered in a State of Restful Awareness
Intention is much more powerful when it comes from a place of contentment than if it arises from a sense of lack or need. Stay centered and refuse to be influenced by other people’s doubts or criticisms. Your higher self knows that everything is all right and will be all right, even without knowing the timing or the details of what will happen.
4. Detach from the Outcome
Relinquish your rigid attachment to a specific result and live in the wisdom of uncertainty. Attachment is based on fear and insecurity, while detachment is based on the unquestioning belief in the power of your true Self. Intend for everything to work out as it should, then let go and allow opportunities and openings to come your way.
5. Let the Universe Handle the Details
Your focused intentions set the infinite organizing power of the universe in motion. Trust that infinite organizing power to orchestrate the complete fulfillment of your desires. Don’t listen to the voice that says that you have to be in charge, that obsessive vigilance is the only way to get anything done. The outcome that you try so hard to force may not be as good for you as the one that comes naturally. You have released your intentions into the fertile ground of pure potentiality, and they will bloom when the season is right.
“As I look back on my life, I realize that every time I thought I was being rejected from something good, I was actually being re-directed to something better.” ~ Steve Maraboli
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It will serve to meld my thoughts and discoveries on becoming true to our authentic selves, from the inside out. We will learn to nourish our relationships and foster a positive self-image in order to ignite the confidence and excitement that lies within all of us. Discovering how food can help to heal the body and mind and bring a sense of inner peace. Authenticity is living your best life….mind, body, and spirit….health is wealth. A healthy mind in a healthy body.
“Self confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have.
How can anyone see how awesome you are if you can’t see it yourself?”
“In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.”
“Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs.”
“I am thankful for all those who said no to me. It’s because of them I’m doing it myself.”
“Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect.
It means that you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections.”
“The pain you feel today is the strength you feel tomorrow.
For every challenge encountered there is an opportunity for growth.”
We are made for larger ends than Earth can encompass. Oh, let us be true to our exalted destiny. ~Catherine Booth
How often does it feel that dreams and aspirations have been lost in the chaos of everyday life? It is necessary to take time to reflect upon the possibilities that lie within our lives. When we allow ourselves some solitude it is possible to reconnect with our authentic selves. The part of ourselves that we might have abandoned for the sake of another person’s happiness. At some point, the spirit needs to be revived and allowed to soar to the places that were only just imagined. For it is within those places we could discover our genuine aspirations waiting to be reignited! In order for the spirit to be resilient, it must not be left to shrink into the shadow of others. With our strength and conviction awakened we can demonstrate the courage and vitality with which others can aspire.
One can never consent to creep when one feels an impulse to soar. ~ Helen Keller